Thursday, September 4, 2008

Bakit ganun ang ibang tao?

Uy, for the first time, my blog entry's title is in Filipino.

It's pretty disappointing when I see friends that suddenly seem to have a certain air of arrogance that they never had before. Yung parang dati, parang ang super close ninyo, pero ngayon, parang wala lang. Snob pa nga kung minsan maski andyan ka na sa harapan nila. OK, so they may be preoccupied or something, but it doesn't really hurt to give a hello, a wave, or even a smile or a simple nod. It only takes a couple of seconds to do so. Tapos may iba pa nga na dinedma na ang lahat ng forms of communication, pero may oras pa rin mag-online para sumilip-silip lang. Yung hirap pa sa iba, ikaw na ang ume-effort for their convenience, pero wala pa rin.

It's pretty sad, really. So what if they're in some sort of exclusive circle? So what kung medyo umangat ang status nila? So what kung naabot na nila ang gusto nila? That doesn't give them the right to brush others off, especially yung mga super close na kaibigan mo pa. Magsasarili pa with those new people they found. Or worse, magsasarili na lang, period.

Before may mga mag-react, I'm not pinpointing just one person in particular here. Hahaha, baka may mga mag-assume na isa nanaman ito sa mga brooding entries ko na naka-blind item. Nope, it's not that.

Who knows, baka meron din kayong mga naging kaibigan na ganyan. Or I could be describing you.
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46 comments:

  1. Paola ConcepcionSeptember 5, 2008 at 12:04 AM

    "Uy, for the first time" --akala ko tungkol sa movie nila richard at kc. parang narinig ko pa ata sa utak ko ung pag-playback nung theme song. hahahaha!!

    ako, may kaibigan akong ganyan....nakoooo..just in time ang blog mo hogi. hahaha kakatuwa :) pero tampo na may halong lambing namn ung samin nung friend ko..eh yung saiyo? hmmm...

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  2. Hogi CadlumSeptember 5, 2008 at 12:06 AM

    Haha, ang kengkoy ng initial reaction mo, Ola! =)

    Well, yung sakin, tungkol sa iba-ibang friends kasi ito eh. So yeah, yung iba may halong lambing din. =) Pero yung iba, tampo na talaga eh, parang minsan di mo na makuha sa lambing, hahahaha!

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  3. Opaline SantosSeptember 5, 2008 at 12:09 AM

    bakit nga ba hogi? ay sus! mauumpog din yan sa pader at matatauhan. hahahah

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  4. Paola ConcepcionSeptember 5, 2008 at 12:11 AM

    hogi at opa! nakakatawa!! dito patayong tatlo nagkaabutan sa multiply!!!

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  5. Paola ConcepcionSeptember 5, 2008 at 12:13 AM

    hahaha...ganun tlga hogi, naalala ko ung kinuwento at in-explain mo sakin dati about this person na parang fitting din sa blog mo na 'to. hehehe...yaan mo, the time will come na sila naman ang makaka-miss at magpaparamdam

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  6. Hogi CadlumSeptember 5, 2008 at 12:15 AM

    Matauhan, yes please. Hahaha, pero wag naman maumpog... Baka magka-amnesia pa yan at kalimutan na ang lahat lahat, hahaha!

    Pero seryoso, may kilala na akong nagka-amnesia! O_o

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  7. Hogi CadlumSeptember 5, 2008 at 12:16 AM

    Oo nga, hahaha! Oist! Pareho kayong nasa YM, dito pa tayo nag uusap!

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  8. Hogi CadlumSeptember 5, 2008 at 12:18 AM

    Hahaha, oo nga no. Isa na siya dun sa mga kasali dito sa entry na ito. Pero hindi na siya nag-iisa, ahahaha.

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  9. Paola ConcepcionSeptember 5, 2008 at 12:18 AM

    hahaha...patulog na ko eh.ampf tong araw na to nakakalokaaaah..
    magkita nman tayo sa ccp! ano na ba ang kaganapan dun ngayon? nuod tayong Mulan ulit!

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  10. Hogi CadlumSeptember 5, 2008 at 12:22 AM

    Game ako diyan! =) Sabihin niyo lang kung kelan!

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  11. Opaline SantosSeptember 5, 2008 at 12:23 AM

    magkita na lang tayong tatlo sa CCP okei? hahahahha

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  12. Russ FritzgeraldSeptember 5, 2008 at 12:23 AM

    taray. i miss u

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  13. Hogi CadlumSeptember 5, 2008 at 12:29 AM

    Sure ba! =P

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  14. Hogi CadlumSeptember 5, 2008 at 12:30 AM

    Haha, minsan lang yan. I miss you too! =)

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  15. zshali ♥September 5, 2008 at 12:45 AM

    Ay baka ako. WAHAHA. Sorry.

    =)

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  16. Hogi CadlumSeptember 5, 2008 at 12:53 AM

    Ay, na-guilty, hahahaha!
    Miss you na sobra, mare.

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  17. zshali ♥September 5, 2008 at 1:05 AM

    Tagos mare, simula left ventricle hanggang right. Umabot pa sa lungs! Dapat yung title nyan ZSHALIMAR, MY SUCKY FRIEND. HAHA!

    I know you understand! I love you Hogi!

    I just told Carlo na I was so bored the other day, I decided to watch our Sabado sa Sam's reading. Remember that? Tawa ako ng tawa mag isa. Hay.

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  18. Kassy PajarilloSeptember 5, 2008 at 4:25 AM

    ay kebs!

    tayo parin sigaw to the max at beso beso! :)) hahahah!

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  19. Hogi CadlumSeptember 5, 2008 at 8:53 AM

    Haha, wag kang mag-aalala, hindi naman ikaw ang pinapatamaan ko dito. Pero miss pa rin kita talaga ng sobra! I love you too Zee! =)

    Sabado sa Sam's, WAHAHAHA. Alala ko yun. One time din yata, pinanood ko ulit sa Multiply mo yung video out of boredom. At during isang rehearsal namin sa Tartuffe, nag-reading din kami ng isa kong kasama sa cast, pero kayo pa rin ang naalala ko. Wahahaha. Nakakamiss.

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  20. Hogi CadlumSeptember 5, 2008 at 8:54 AM

    Wahaha, may ganun talaga eh. =P

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  21. Kassy PajarilloSeptember 5, 2008 at 9:00 AM

    feeling corridor away lang kahit saan .. oh high school, some things never change :) but i agree with this post -- seriously.

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  22. Hogi CadlumSeptember 5, 2008 at 9:06 AM

    Oh well, ganyan talaga ang buhay, I guess.

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  23. threadzies ^_^September 5, 2008 at 9:07 AM

    well, kaya nga sila tinawag na IBA. :)

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  24. Hogi CadlumSeptember 5, 2008 at 9:12 AM

    AYUN! Panalo ang sinabi mo, hahaha. =)

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  25. threadzies ^_^September 5, 2008 at 9:17 AM

    syempre... galit ako sa mga ganyan e. akala mo kung sino... pwe...

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  26. Mae CastroSeptember 5, 2008 at 10:41 AM

    Hayaan mo na kung sino man yang mga yan. Mga pangit sila. PANGIT. PAngit na mabaho pa. Amen.

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  27. Hogi CadlumSeptember 5, 2008 at 11:56 AM

    Korek ka diyan... Oh well...

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  28. Hogi CadlumSeptember 5, 2008 at 11:56 AM

    Amen. Hahahaha. Taray mo rin ah.

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  29. Raffy GonzalesSeptember 5, 2008 at 12:01 PM

    Baka meron lang silang "image" na "pinoprotektahan"

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  30. jeff aguimanSeptember 5, 2008 at 12:03 PM

    Haayyyy, ganyan talaga ang buhay.:(

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  31. Hogi CadlumSeptember 5, 2008 at 12:05 PM

    Kaloka naman yun. "Protecting" your "image" by exuding arrogance.

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  32. Hogi CadlumSeptember 5, 2008 at 12:06 PM

    Oo nga. Oh well...

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  33. Raffy GonzalesSeptember 5, 2008 at 12:09 PM

    At least yan yabang at dedma lang e, yung dating kilala ko pisikal e.

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  34. jhack telanSeptember 5, 2008 at 12:12 PM

    Naku hogi, ganyan talaga minsan ang tao.. People change and sometimes, no matter how we want someone to stay with us, wala tayong magagawa if they want to live their life away from us. Saka 'wag ka mag-alala, hindi mo kawalan yun, kawalan nila 'yon.

    Tignan mo, pag kailangan ka na ulit nila, magkukumahog pa ang mga 'yan na bumalik sa'yo.. So chill, 'wag mo aksayahin ang oras, panahon, at talino mo sa mga taong wala namang pakialam sa'yo. Eeffortan mo, de-deadmahin nila, sayang ang pagod. I'm sure you have a lot of other friends who will stand by your side forever... di ba? (=

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  35. jeff aguimanSeptember 5, 2008 at 12:50 PM

    Para mas madali. Accept the changes then move on. Tama si Jhack. Umiikot ang mundo, don't waste time thinking about them (sayang ang time,energy and emotions). Let them think and worry about you !! Hahahaha.

    Pasensya na ha. Nakaka-relate e. Ang ginagawa ko, sinasabi ko sa sarili ko "Don't overthink" lalo na kung ang utak ko e puno lang ng assumptions. I'd rather do something productive.

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  36. Hogi CadlumSeptember 5, 2008 at 11:25 PM

    True. Ewan ko ba. Yan ang sakit ko eh, hahaha, if you can call it that. Clingy ako sa mga kaibigan ko, kaya syempre labas ang lahat ng effort para sa kanila, kahit anong mangyari. Pero I guess I have this tendency of becoming a doormat din. Oh well.

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  37. Hogi CadlumSeptember 5, 2008 at 11:28 PM

    Tama ka about letting them think and worry about me instead, HAHAHAHA! Pero seriously, tulad nga ng reply ko kay Jhack, yan ang sakit ko. Concerned lang ako sa mga lahat ng mga kaibigan ko, kaya ganun. Syempre ayokong hayaan sila na maging sobrang arrogant or whatever. Pero yeah, it's their choice na rin naman.

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  38. Hogi CadlumSeptember 5, 2008 at 11:29 PM

    Pisikal? Naku, wag naman sana.

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  39. Teena von EinsiedelSeptember 6, 2008 at 1:18 AM

    bestfriend ni jake?

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  40. Hogi CadlumSeptember 6, 2008 at 1:34 AM

    Hahaha! In fairness, na-miss ko siya.

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  41. dy0wn galangSeptember 6, 2008 at 10:26 AM

    i miss BEE EF EF's. :[

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  42. Tin YangSeptember 6, 2008 at 10:02 PM

    Sorrry ate howwgs soooorrrryyyyyyyy!!! :))

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  43. Hogi CadlumSeptember 6, 2008 at 11:40 PM

    Ako rin. Sobra...

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  44. jhack telanSeptember 8, 2008 at 7:43 AM

    You know what, I was like that before.. but then again I grew tired of it kasi naisip ko na bakit ko ba kailangan aksayahin yung oras ko sa kanila kung wala naman silang pakielam sa'ken? Wag na lang, di ba? It's not that I'm not being true to them or what, pero hindi nila ako trapo na gagamitin kung kailangan lang.

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  45. jhack telanSeptember 8, 2008 at 7:44 AM

    Korek! Apir Jeff! =p

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  46. Hogi CadlumSeptember 8, 2008 at 10:18 AM

    Uy, isa pang na-guilty, haha. =)) Miss you, Tin! =)

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