Text exchange a few days ago with a friend about a common friend that we have:
Hogi: Nako, si _____, ayaw na nya maalala yung panahon na yun, hahaha.
Friend: Actually, si ____ din. Hahaha.
Hogi: Haha, maraming ngang ganun sa kanila. Ang funny pa, kung sino pa sa kanila yung ganun, sila pa yung mga hindi talaga directly involved sa nangyari back then.
Honestly, I didn't get it. Kung sino pa ang hindi involved sa situation, sila pa yung mga tumalikod dun sa past na yun at ayaw nang maalala. Yung tipong pag tinanong kung paano kami magkakilala, ayaw aminin dahil parang lumalabas na nakakahiya. Mga friends, hindi dapat ikahiya ang mga yan, dahil it doesn't make you less of a person. It's part of what made you who you are today, so bakit mo kakalimutan, diba? Bakit ba kayo masyadong nagpapaapekto nung time na yun? OK, sige, I understand that you were sympathizing with the ones directly involved, but wag naman masyadong magpaapekto.
It's weird how I just pondered over those friends of mine who were in that circle. I still love them to bits, we still talk and even try to make the effort to stay in touch, but I just don't get why they do this.
Wala lang, bigla lang ako napaisip nung magkatext kami ng isang friend na yan.
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